Hello Folks,
It’s me again. This time with tales and pictures from my trip to Ethiopia.
After a few days of rest and basking in the tranquility of my friend’s NY Lake house, I am happy to report that I have recovered from the jetlag and whatever ailment befell me upon my return to the US. I do not think I have malaria, although the malaria pills I have to take for the next 4 weeks are giving me nightmares and making me even more psychotic

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As you know, I volunteered to help my friend’s mom (Cheryl) bring back 4 infants, a 2 year old, and a 7 year old from Ethiopia to New York. We delivered them to their new parents. I initially thought that traveling with 6 children couldn’t possibly be that bad. I mean, it’s about a 14 - 16 hour flight time and I figured the babies would spend the whole time sleeping. So I got ready by wearing my relax jeans, my most comfortable Farragamo loafers, and wore no make up at all! I even checked in all of my luggage and had only my backpack on me (no last minute airport shopping for Rosie). Well, I had a very rude awakening soon enough! I should have realized what I was up against when 3 nuns came up to me and said they will pray for me (honestly!!!) upon seeing me with the 6 children.
So the night started off with Cheryl thinking she lost her passport as we were checking in (she eventually found it after 15 minutes of frantic search). During this time, the babies decided they were hungry. Cheryl instructed me to prepare the formula. Formula? Huh? So there I was surrounded by strollers and a 7 year old who could not stand still as I prepared my very first baby formula. I think there was more powder on the floor than in the bottle but the babies seemed to have enjoyed it so I was pretty proud of myself by this time.
I do not know at what point it happened but somehow we ended up with so many carry-on bags (and no they were not all mine!) while pushing two double strollers and a single stroller. How we managed to repeatedly fold/unfold the strollers while carrying the babies individually through security, I really do not remember. I found myself in a dazed, wondering if this was one wacky dream. I remember standing inside the plane with babies in both arms waiting for the seating arrangements to be finalized (I think the flight was actually delayed by 30 minutes). The kids were actually not so bad once the plane took off. They only cried when they needed food and a change. Ok, I did not think about the pamper changing experience ahead of time. It was certainly one of the most traumatic experiences of my life and I’m sure for the kids as well. I had never seen pampers up close and personal before!!!! It was
NOT very cool (definitely nothing like walking my dog) and I think it was right about this time when I vowed never to have any kids of my own

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And of course, although the children were very cute and adorable (especially when they were clean) they really made a mess of the plane. The floor was covered in rice, juice, crackers, and stinky blankets. I was also very worried that the seatbelts would not hold the babies in place so I watched them like a hawk; some people thought they were my kids (especially with the cornrows on my head). Needless to say I did not sleep much and I was looking quite ragged by this time. Can you imagine these 6 cute little bundles bringing Princess Rosie down to her knees? I wanted a stiff drink. No, I wanted a manicure, a facial, and a massage. I wanted my knight to come and rescue me from this never-ending, somewhat loud, nightmare. There were times when I just felt helpless and almost in tears while attempting to console the upset children. They did not speak a word of English and I did not speak their language. However, some of the Ethiopian passengers were kind enough to speak to them and alleviate some of their confusion and fear. Some even helped us push them through the immigration and customs. But honestly, despite the chaos and exhaustion, this was certainly the best part of my African trip (even better than bungee jumping into the Zambezi River!). Nothing can compare to the happiness I felt when I watched the children greet their new families. There was so much love from people whom, until that day, have never physically seen these children. It felt so good to know that they will no longer be hungry and alone, that they now have somewhere to call home with parents, siblings, aunts, uncles, cousins…All thanks to a program called the Americans for African Adoption, Inc (http://www.africanadoptions.org/) which was established by Cheryl Carter-Shotts of Indianapolis, Indiana.
Cheryl adopted my friend, Mohammed, from the Saharan desert 20 years ago (you may have heard or seen his story on 60 minutes, Dateline, and Oprah). She then went on to establish the Americans for African Adoption, Inc to help these unfortunate children displaced by war, and for the most part, economic and social circumstances beyond their control. All of the children we brought back from Ethiopia were abandoned by their mothers; a few were given away, while the rest were left for dead in the garbage. Today, the Americans for African Adoption (AFAA), Inc operates in several countries including Ethiopia, Liberia, Mali, Uganda, etc. The 4 bedroom AFAA house in Ethiopia is home to almost 50 children of ages up to 15 years along with their 9 house mothers who are charged with caring for them 24 hours a day. It is very cramped and warm (there is no AC in this neighborhood). Electricity is sporadic so we’re never sure of the availability of hot water. The AFAA house does not have reliable transportation (the import tax of 170% does not allow the limited AFAA budget for the purchase of a car conducive for driving in the rocky dirt side roads) hence it relies heavily on taxis and help from local volunteers. Most Ethiopians do not speak English so catching a cab on the road isn’t exactly simple. Because of increased crimes, walking is not advisable.
I spent most of my time in Ethiopia in the orphanage with the children. I have seen poverty in my previous trips to Asia and Mexico but I have never been so close to it. I watched the children in silence and listened to their stories. One infant was missing an arm; another was found dying of starvation; some were orphaned when parents died of AIDS. Each child had his/her own tragic story etched in his/her beautiful little face… One cannot possibly escape the sorrow and fear in their vulnerable eyes. I do not think they know how lucky they are to be alive. Perhaps it is not luck at all, but a strength in character that wills them to survive in such dire conditions. The AFAA House, with the dedication and diligence of Cheryl and her staff, nurtures that will and provides these children a second chance at life. Currently, all but one of the children in the Ethiopian AFAA House has adopted parents waiting in the US. For every child placed in the US, there are probably 100 waiting to take his/her place in the orphanage. Unfortunately, those thousands who test HIV positive will never make it to this orphanage and will never be placed.
In all of my life, I have watched friends and family strive so hard for financial success. Sometimes, no amount is ever enough. I do not think there’s anything wrong with this definition of success. I, myself, have been accused of using materialism and financial success to validate personal success. However, it was so humbling to watch these children at the orphanage. It took very little to make them happy. They needed only a few things in life: a roof over their head, rice to eat, and a little bit of love. So nowadays, when I’m a bit sad, I think of those children and remember how lucky I am. I may not have a lot, but I do have all the things in life that count, that make this life worth living. Please review the pictures I have attached and read through my little descriptions. Simply go to:
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And when you are done, I hope that you will take a few minutes out of your busy schedules to visit the website for Americans for African Adoption, Inc (http://www.africanadoptions.org/) to discover how you can help in the plight of these children, maybe even make a donation. You do not have to make a difference in a million lives…sometimes one life is enough. Thank you!
Lots of love,
Rosalie